I am told that this applies to lots of you right now so I hope that your intuition led you to read this and that you act upon it.


If you find yourself in a situation where you can see that a friend or loved one is walking on the wrong path but they just won’t listen, don’t continue to preach or try to get them to listen because sometimes emotions of unworthiness, loneliness, anger, or fear of change can prevent them from listening. Pushing them to listen could even make them more determined to carry on the way they are. So do this instead.


Find somewhere quiet to sit, take a few deep breaths, now imagine yourself sitting under a tree, all around you is nature, it is peaceful and quite. I want you to imagine your friend or loved one is sitting there with you.

As you sit there, imagine that you are having the conversation you know they need to hear, but their earthly body is not hearing. Trust that their soul will listen. It is important that you do this with love in your heart and simply guide them NOT dictate or try to force them, for their life is theirs to make choices, not yours to rule, even if you can see that they are about to make what you view as a mistake. What we view as mistakes are actually what we learn from!

When you have finished your conversation imagine that you both get up and hug goodbye. Now I want you to ask the spirit world to help deliver this conversation to your loved one and ask that it helps them to see clearly with where they are going, what they are doing or how they are acting.


You can use this visualisation time and time again in your life but it is vital that you do it with love in your heart and remember that you are purely guiding them NOT doing it for them. You may even find that this will help YOU if you have the tendency to feel responsible for them or worry about them. So use it as a way of handing back responsibility to them.

If you feel you need a bit of help with this then please feel free to get in touch and I would love to help where I can.


Love and Light